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Wednesday, 3 February 2010

What would you do?

You wanted to advice people but you're not good enough. But who's the right person to give advices? The person that never have the experiences of it? The person that full of experiences? The person that prayers a lot and never make mistakes? The person that did the bad things?

The real question - does the person you're advising, understand what the hell you're talking about? HAHAHAHA What's the point of saying it out loud if he/she don't bothered? Yess??

I have an issued sister, I'm not being proud of letting this out on my blog. Some will know my sister some not. I'm not asking you to judge but understand the situation.

On our view;
She sneak out late night and making troubles. She doing forbidden stuff and got influences from bad side. What does she really want? Ask me, she was given all the stuff that she want except going out. Why?? Because you're still a little girl.

On her view;
I don't have freedom? I want to enjoy and go out with friends. I want to feel new thing and I'm curious about the world. I feel stress at home for doing nothing. Bla Bla Bla

Where did we go wrong? Less attention? Overlooked? Couldn't bother much? She's much easier to teach since others (6) have grown up? Do we underestimate her? Do we expose bad influences so much to her?

Every time I'm trying to advice her it coming back to me. What did I do during I'm at her age? How can I control my wants and needs? M not that intelligent as well then why push her? Still until now, Me myself not a good example to show to her. If i shout to her will she listen? Does this skins of mine will teach her a lessons? Never...I tried~. Would it be easy for you sis to do everything all our parent wants and needs and once you're grown up, or working then you compensate all your wants n needs. Fyi, compensate mcm mByar blik lh ahaha simple english 2...

I feel like giving up on her...Just don't let the whole family give up on you. Trust me, You'll regret it so much...

1 comments:

singleminglehumble said...

they will not understand... and yea..i still glad that we know how to take care of our self till this stage ;)


with love.... -aMaLaWa-